Have you ever went into a relationship e…

Have you ever went into a relationship eyes wide open to exactly what you are going to get out of it?  A lot of people don't.  Most probably wish and hope it turn out good.  Some even give up thinking and just go with it based on "blind" faith, a sign or how they feel.  Although emotions are important, we should also want assurances.  God gives us assurances in the signs all around us, but if you don't know how to read the signs, let alone don't even see the signs that matter...then you can't benefit from what it is supposed to lead you to.  Right? In response to your desires and the signs that point to them, let me answer a fundamental question, "What's in it for you?" The simple and easy response is, peace, rest, finality, wholeness; no more searching; unity, oneness...God! If we was to break it down into specifics that you can actually see, use and identify with, I would say that everything that you've always wanted (and some you may not even knew you wanted) would be yours.  Which will include: Satisfying an all-pervading hidden need in you somebody to love who loves you loyal companionship feeling good about yourself (with me) finding your true self broadening your life's purpose accepting someone to mess up your life...in a good way having your greatest supporter by your side an adventuring "freak nasty" to explore with the other half of you (your compliment) someone who will challenge you to be your best self strengths where you are weak opportunities to shine heat balance intrigue security when you're feeling insecure exciting stimulations inspirations peace of mind possibilities a man willing to do IT right, until he get it right comfort emotional freedom righteous advice and divine guidance fun with just being self a chance to get "IT" right (your failings) appreciation someone to believe in tears of joy to explore the depths, degrees, dimensions of self All of this and more. Finding a "good" man is an abstract concept loosely tied to strings that mimic the fulfillment of love.  Real fulfillment is not in what he brings to you, but that which he reveals by his existence in your life.